Wednesday, September 08, 2004
September 2004 Newsletter
Captain's Log
Welcome back. Our last meeting before the summer was crowded out. We all tried to meet at Walden Pond on a beautiful day in late June when everyone in the world was there. We arrived to find no parking available, and instant cancellation of our event! Sorry! That may have been the nicest day of the summer until the calendar turned to August. At the three week mark in July an item in the Bangor paper informed us that of the first 21 days in July, 18 were foggy. Yet we still had a nice summer. There was time for swimming and game playing, eating lobster, and even becoming one at a museum exhibit we attended in Searsport called Lobstah! Fortunately for me my weight and height made me "oversized" , and so the lobsterman who caught me had to throw me back. My kids however, were not so lucky, they made a nice meal for someone.
Andrea and I had to say goodbye to the first home we ever owned as a couple, and we worked on our new home as well. We built a shed next to the cottage, which for someone who cannot tell a regular screw driver from a Phillips is a great accomplishment. I would never try such crazy things without my partner's determination. Then she finished the summer by building Levi a bed. I think Andrea may be about to return to the family construction business! Construction was on my mind when we visited the island of Vinalhaven, and found that the old historical society building there was a former Universalist church that they had floated out from Rockland, and reconstructed on the island.
I don't think we will have to put anything back together this fall. We are back at church with no construction in sight. The sanctuary still looks beautiful, and thanks to David Benson, there appear to be no leaks from the flat roof. David put up a new ceiling in the corridor next to the classrooms downstairs. It looks great. So now it is time for all our building energy to go into strengthening our congregation. The spirit here last spring was wonderful. Now we have a committee in place to help spearhead some congregational growth. Can we build something solid like Levi's new four poster bed? Will we feel afloat in the harbor looking for solid ground on our own little island?
This is the time to regather and affirm all the love and support we have built as a congregation in this last year. This congregation and its ministry is here for you. Please let us know how your religious home can be a continuing source of spiritual nourishment for you. Sometimes newcomers to our faith think it is adrift in the harbor with no grounding because of our non-credal nature, but our Unitarian Universalist power is in the process of discovery, the quest of truth, the open response to others, and the fluidity of love. "All of us can help newcomers in their understanding of UUism by speaking to them and helping to orient them when they visit.
Come join us in this ongoing construction project of faith. Together we build a growing
community of compassion and hope.
September Sermon and Services
All services at 11:00 a.m.
Sunday, September 12
Water Ceremony and Ingathering The Congregation
On the first Sunday of the year we gather the waters from the member of the community. Please bring a small vial of water from wherever your travels took you this summer (we will also have virtual water available). Please come and tell us how the water you collected refreshed your soul. This is a service for all ages.
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Sunday, September 19
"Finding Home" Mark W. Harris
Summer is a time when we may lose perspective on where home is. We may visit our other homes, such as places that feel special to us. Sometimes we live out of context. In the novel Brick Lane (a summer read), the characters live in London, but home seems to be Bangladesh. How do we find home?
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Sunday, September 26
"Taking Time Seriously" Mark W. Harris
The Mass. Council of Churches has a program called "Take Back Your Time."As fall schedules heat up, it is a worthy consideration, if you have time! Also, some thoughts on the 150 th anniversary of the publication of Thoreau's Walden.
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Among Us
Our love and sympathy to Harold Bejcek and family at the death of his wife Evelyn on August 22. Evelyn was one who did countless things for the Watertown community. A service was held at First Parish on Friday August 27 conducted by Andrea and Mark. Contributions in Evelyn's name may go to the Watertown Education Foundation.
Some rites of passage that occurred just before the summer break:
Congratulations and welcome to Julian Howland, son of Janie and Brian Howland, and little brother of Davis. Julian was dedicated on ..
Congratulations to Elizabeth de Frees and Isabel Tappan who were legally married on their seventh anniversary, June 21. They also have a new family name : Tappan-deFrees.
Congratulation to Ken Repp and Chris Johnson, who were legally married on June 27 at First Parish.
At a special school ceremony last spring, Charlotte Fitts-Sprague and Amy Urban were each presented with awards for "most improved." There were only two awards in this category given to the entire 6th grade class and our FPW girls got them! Congratulations.
R.E.flections by a chaliceD.R.E.amer
by Roberta Altamari
Wow! I can't believe summer has flown by so quickly and that I'm already writing my first Arbella column of the year. We've got another exciting year ahead of us and I can't wait to get started.
Did you know that ... the Water Service (coming on Sunday, September 12) is one of my favorite First Parish rituals. I always look forward to hearing the stories about everyone's summer adventures and to experiencing that wonderful, connective spirit. It feels like the "loving hug" of a church family coming back together.
Did you know that ... The 1977 Women and Religion Resolution at the General Assembly began the process of updating the bylaws, reframing the principles, and revising the songs to be more respectful and inclusive of women (as initiated by a group from Lexington, Mass). It was 1980 when 2 women (Lucille Longview and Carolyn McDade) created a ceremony of "water sharing" for hundreds of women gathering together for a "Convocation on Feminist Theology". "The women were rising and water had carried them there." The ceremony was so beautiful and affirming that many people brought it back home to their churches. It caught on and has become an important ritual at many UU churches.
Did you know that ... I've learned a lot about Unitarian Universalist history and theology this summer while preparing this year's program. As our children explore our principles as inspired by people who are courageously loving, we will focus on UU stories. I already knew that this would offer our children a valuable introduction to their UU history. What I didn't know was just how amazing some of our UU ancestors are. From countless UU's who stood up for their beliefs despite horrible consequences to the many UU's who worked tirelessly helping others, they all got me incredibly inspired. I hope you and your children are equally impressed when you hear their stories this year.
Did you know that ... our children will also be exploring our principles as inspired by "Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves." We will focus much of our attention during this exploration on the bible stories from the Old Testament (Hebrew Scriptures) since both traditions share these stories. I have to admit that I was surprised to discover how many books tell these stories in a fear-inducing "God will punish those who are bad" way. After reading these stories I remember from my Christian childhood, I initially felt an overwhelming gratitude to be a part of a religious faith that wouldn't even think of scaring children into "believing" something. These bible stories and characters are fully integrated into our American culture and I think it is important for our UU children to think carefully about who's presenting the story and what message they are using the story to convey. By the time I was done revisiting these same bible stories with a "loving God" presentation, I was inspired by how affirming and relevant their messages can be to our UU faith.
Did you know that ... our children will also be exploring our principles as inspired by earth centered traditions. Knowing the history of religion and that native tribes created religion to explain the unexplainable and to guide human behavior, I have been fascinated to learn more. While Native Americans, Pagans, witches, etc. have often been treated with little regard in American culture, their traditions are filled with lots of respect for our beautiful earth and the interconnection we all share. I have enjoyed learning about these valuable traditions and I look forward to sharing some of the highlights with you.
Did you know that ... our "children's ministry" orientation sessions are set for Sunday, September 12 from 9 AM to 11 AM and Saturday, September 18 from 10 AM to Noon. It's a great time to connect with old and new friends while learning more about our wonderful plans for this coming year.
Did you know that ... Cody and Giles have accepted a generous invitation to join the youth at First Parish of Cambridge for their comprehensive Coming-of-Age program. They are both thrilled that the First Parish of Watertown members they asked to be their mentors enthusiastically accepted. Many, many thanks to David Morrison and Will Twombly!
Did you know that ... we have a great group of "Principle Activators" this year. We have a group of 6 or 7 kids ready to experience our fascinating youth programming. You may know a little bit about this program from seeing all the fun, creative, and interesting things Cody and Giles have done in the past few years. From "sacred grocery shopping" and making "life story quilts" to "making their paper mache chalice" and "taking pictures of the Charles River in the rain", they had an incredible experience in our program. Our new "Principle Activators" will have many opportunities to creatively express their beliefs and look at the UU principles from a deeper perspective. They will also continue to put our principles into action with valuable community service projects. Most significantly, the program will offer them more freedom to create a church experience that reflects their own spiritual dreams and to build more relationships within the First Parish community. They will be participating in a special orientation on Thursday, September 16th to learn all the exciting details of their unique program.
Did you know that ... we also offer top-quality, progressive programming for our youngest children. Since parents often decide to church shop when their children are very young, it's important to welcome them with vibrant, engaging, age-appropriate programming. And that's exactly what we're doing. We are planning to offer nursery care this year by safe, loving adults and I spent a good deal of time this summer developing my "Friendship Finders" curriculum for our two-year-olds. It's a structured routine of toddler books, songs, activities, and rituals perfect for helping them learn that First Parish is a safe and fun place to be.
Did you know that ... I have been learning how to play the guitar this summer so that I can enthusiastically join Charlyn Bethell and Paula Chase in their inspiring efforts to bring more of the sweet sound of children's music into our ministry. I am still learning, so be kind if you hear me make mistakes with my chord changes when leading the kids in song.
Did you know that ... we will continue to inspire our children with enjoyable and valuable opportunities for "helping others". Many simple but meaningful "community service projects" are being planned to do with our children during their Sunday morning small group gatherings. "Chalice Children", our extra-curricular club for all First Parish children wishing to get more involved in helping our community, will start off the year with a great project - selling root-beer at "Faire on the Square" to benefit the library's building fund.
Saving the best news for last, did you know that ... we are already growing! My projections of who will likely be registering this year for our "children's ministry" program include 10 new names. Three were born into our church family last year, five visited last year and are very likely to be signing up this year, one is a middle school student new to the area who may be interested in our unique program for youth his age, and one is the four-year-old daughter of a former First Parish member who promises she is coming back. Kudos to everyone at First Parish for welcoming these families and supporting our growth!!
Did you know that ... with all this promising growth, we need your help more than ever! Volunteer options in our "children's ministry" range from super easy (like being an assistant to a "spiritual guide" or babysitting our cute "chalice babies") to inspiring opportunities to share your special talents (as a "spiritual guide" with one of our groups or by showing an interesting craft to our youth). Everyone's help is needed and I'd be happy to talk to you about the perfect way to match your interests, capabilities, and available time with a meaningful volunteer opportunity. Please talk to me today.
We are growing and your help in our "children's ministry" program is needed more than ever! Many super easy volunteer opportunities are available. Contact Roberta today (at xxx-xxx-xxxx or chaliceDREamer@aol.com).
REMEMBER TO BRING WATER ON SEPTEMBER 12
Every year our opening service is an Intergenerational Water Ceremony. Each of us pours a small amount of water into a common bowl representing our joined community. The water represents some aspect of our summer experience that we wish to share with the congregation - where did we go ; what did we learn? It may have been a far away journey or a backyard stream that inspired you. Please tell us how your spiritual journey was enhanced by the water you bring on September 12.
New Memorial Fund
On Sunday, October 3 after church, we will have a brief memorial service to scatter the ashes of long time member Marguerite Jones. This event will inaugurate a new effort to establish a FPW memorial stone and garden area in front of the church. Ultimately we hope to raise funds to completely landscape and create a garden where the marigolds are now planted annually. We also hope to place a permanent granite stone where many FPW members can be memorialized. If you would like to make a contribution, please mark it Memorial Fund. We hope to establish a committee, and develop further plans to accomplish this project this fall.
Growth Committee
A New committee to help the congregation manage some intentional growth in the coming years is now in place. Come help plan improved signage, visitor follow-up and special visitor Sundays. It will hold its inaugural meeting of the fall on Sunday, September 12 after church. If you are interested in joining us, please speak to Jane Knuttunen or Mark Harris.
Summer Services Thank you.
We had a wonderful array of summer services this year. Thanks to all those who gave their time and energy to produce such great services. Our gratitude to Jean Merkl, Paul Day, Kathy Button and Carole Berney and Paula Chase and Guy Urban (along with Michael Collins and Charlyn Bethell). Thanks also to the Worship Committee members who coordinated each day.
"Maintaining Quality of Life as We Age"
Sunday morning forum with Bob Dutton
Sunday, September 26 , 9:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.
Bob Dutton (Father of Nancy), who has become a UU later in life, first in Watertown and now in North Attleboro, and was an ordained Congregational minister and long time prison chaplain, will join was for two Sunday morning forums this fall (the second one will be on October 31) The topic of this discussion will be "Maintaining Quality of Life as We Age." Now well into his 90's Bob must cope with Parkinson Disease, and he has also endured the loss a partner. These two aspects of aging will be the focus of his discussion with us. All are welcome to attend. We will ask: How do we handle the changes in our bodies, and the variety of pains and illnesses we must confront as we age. How much control can we maintain? How do we adjust? The second aspect of aging is the continuing changes in our relationships. How do we manage the loss of loved ones - partners and friends, and how do our relationships change with family and others? Please join us for this stimulating discussion. Bob will initiate our discussion, and Mark Harris will also be present to help facilitate.
Welcome Darrick!
This fall we say hello to an new student intern. Darrick Jackson, a student at Andover Newton Theological School, and an active lay person at Arlington Street Church in Boston will join us for the next two years. Darrick is interested in the relationship between theater and worship. He is a graduate of Purdue University, and has recently been active in the UU young Adult Network. Welcome Darrick!
Annual Service Auction
As we start the new church year, it's not too early to begin thinking about the Annual Service Auction, which will be held on Saturday, November 13. The auction is a major fundraiser for First Parish, and is also one of the most enjoyable social events of the year.
Do you have a service or article you can donate? It might be an evening of babysitting, an afternoon of gardening help, a gourmet dinner, computer help, or a piece of art you've created. Everyone has a talent they can share! Donating to the auction allows you to share your talent, assist First Parish, and perhaps make some new friends within the church.
Auction donation forms will be included in the next newsletter. Later in the fall, we will produce and distribute an auction booklet listing all the donated items. On October 24, October 31, and November 7 we will have tables set up during Social Hour for you to bid on your favorite items. The culmination of the auction is the evening of November 13, with a potluck dinner, and final bidding led by our talented First Parish auctioneer!
If you'd like to get some ideas about what you might donate to the auction, please consult last year's auction booklet which is posted on the bulletin board in the Social Hall. If you are interested in volunteering to assist with the auction, or if you have any questions, please speak with a member of the Parish Committee
Thanks from Project Literacy
Project Literacy groups have been meeting at FPW for some years. They will especially need our space during the library renovations. What follows is letter Mark received last spring.
85 Porter Road
Waltham, MA 02452
Dear Mr. Harris:
I am a student in PROJECT LITERACY, the adult literacy program thatis based in the Watertown Free Public Library. I was so glad to be askedto join this program in January, 2004, and I would like to express my gratitude for giving us the use of the conference room in your church.
In this way the students in our group have the possibility of improving their speaking ability by talking about all kinds of news. Each of us readsan article before coming to class and then we report on it at our weeklymeeting. This is very important for every student because it gives each of usthe support and help we need to integrate ourselves into a new community ina new country.
Thank you for supporting this important human mission of ProjectLiteracy.
With gratitude and respect,
Bogdana Ganeva
Sofia, Bulgaria
UU News / Community News
Fall in Love with Vermont
Here is your invitation to B & B with UUs in the Brattleboro area for a weekend this October. Enjoy the highlights of Southern Vermont's Foliage Season: the Vermont Jazz Center and Bach Festival Events, Farmer's Market, Dummerston Apple Pie Festival, Newfane Heritage Festival (craft fair), Brattleboro Museum and Art Center Exhibits and so very much more. Join us for our Sunday Service at 10 A.M.
This Bed and Breakfast "Fun-Raiser" will benefit All Souls Church Unitarian Universalist, West Brattleboro, Vermont. Weekends available are: Oct. 8-10th (Columbus Day weekend) and Oct. 15-16th. We expect peak colors around this time. Foliage B & B rates, per night: $50 single, $75 double, and $25 child.
Check our web site www.allsouls.brattleboro.uua.org. For information
E-mail Kathy Squires at solanasq@together.net or leave her a message at xxx-xxx-xxxx.
UNIVERSALIST CONFERENCE OCT. 2, MEDFORD, MA
The Rev. John Buehrens will give the keynote address, "Living with Soul: the Intersection of Spirituality and Social Justice," at the New Massachusetts Universalist Convention's Annual Conference on Saturday, October 2, at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Medford, MA, 147 High Street. The day will run from 8:30 to 4:30 and include food (breakfast, lunch, snack), worship, small group reflection, workshops, and lots of good conversation. YELLOW registration fliers have been sent to all UU churches in New England. Full information also is available on line--go to www.nmuc.uua.org and click on "Annual Meeting."
FLORIDA UUS and Hurricane Charley
Florida UUs are helping clean up in the wake of the recent hurricane disaster. The Florida District has set up a relief fund for those affected by the hurricane. If you would like to help, please send checks marked for Florida District Disaster Fund to Florida District UUA, 1901 E. Robinson Street, Suite 18, Orlando, FL 32803.
Holly Near Makes Two Local Appearances
Holly Near will be the feature performer at a concert presented at the First Parish in Cambridge, 3 Church Street in Harvard Square, Saturday, October 2, at 8:00 P.M.
Proceeds will benefit the human rights work of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee. Holly Near has received numerous awards for her work for social change, including honors from the ACLU, the National Lawyers Guild, the National Organization for Women, NARAS, Ms. Magazine (Woman of the Year), and the Legends of Women's Music Award. Local favorite Scott Alarik will open. Floor seats $ 25.00 advance / $28. 00 door; gallery seats $20.00 advance / $23.00 door. For more information, call (781) 444-7478. For tickets, go to www.uusc.org or call 800 766-5236.
On Sunday, Sunday, October 3, at 2:00 PM, Holly will present her "Singing for Our Lives" Workshop and Song Talk at First Parish in Needham. In her workshop presentation, Holly tells her story. She uses very specific experiences of falling and getting back up as examples of how she learned activism. Social change movements were the "university" where she studied issues of race, gender, class, and culture. From tales of her work in Hollywood, to travels in war zones, Holly invites the participants to embrace their own journey, their own next step. Holly brings vibrancy to historic and current events with great charm and humor. First Parish in Needham, Unitarian Universalist Church is located at the corner of Great Plain and Dedham Avenue in Needham center. There is free parking and wheelchair access. Admission is $10.00 advance / $12.00 at the door to benefit the Church. For tickets, make checks payable to First Parish in Needham, 23 Dedham Avenue, Needham, MA 02492. For more information, call (xxx) xxx-xxxx.
Faith in Action Volunteers
Faith in Actions Caregivers, Inc., is seeking persons to give one hour of their time to help frail elders, and disabled persons living in their homes. Volunteers are need to make friendly visits, grocery shopping, respite care, escort transportation to Drs. appointments, playing cards, and telephone assurance. Your volunteer service can make a difference in a person's life. Call Jean Mulloy at xxx-xxx-xxxx
Welcome back!
A question to ponder in the months ahead:
In 2005 we will mark 375 years as a congregation
How shall we celebrate?
Calendar for September:
Wed., September 1 -7:30 p.m. Fellowship Committee
Wed., September 7 - 7:30 p.m. Parish Committee
Sunday, September 12 - 9-11 RE Orientation
12:15 Growth Committee
Thurs., September 16 - 7-9 RE Orientation
Sat., September 18 - 10-12 RE Orientation
Sun., September 26 - 9:30- 11:00 a.m. Seminar on Aging with Bob Dutton
Mon., September 27 - 7:30 p.m. Building and Grounds
Tues., September 28 6:30-8:30 p.m. Women and Work
Welcome back. Our last meeting before the summer was crowded out. We all tried to meet at Walden Pond on a beautiful day in late June when everyone in the world was there. We arrived to find no parking available, and instant cancellation of our event! Sorry! That may have been the nicest day of the summer until the calendar turned to August. At the three week mark in July an item in the Bangor paper informed us that of the first 21 days in July, 18 were foggy. Yet we still had a nice summer. There was time for swimming and game playing, eating lobster, and even becoming one at a museum exhibit we attended in Searsport called Lobstah! Fortunately for me my weight and height made me "oversized" , and so the lobsterman who caught me had to throw me back. My kids however, were not so lucky, they made a nice meal for someone.
Andrea and I had to say goodbye to the first home we ever owned as a couple, and we worked on our new home as well. We built a shed next to the cottage, which for someone who cannot tell a regular screw driver from a Phillips is a great accomplishment. I would never try such crazy things without my partner's determination. Then she finished the summer by building Levi a bed. I think Andrea may be about to return to the family construction business! Construction was on my mind when we visited the island of Vinalhaven, and found that the old historical society building there was a former Universalist church that they had floated out from Rockland, and reconstructed on the island.
I don't think we will have to put anything back together this fall. We are back at church with no construction in sight. The sanctuary still looks beautiful, and thanks to David Benson, there appear to be no leaks from the flat roof. David put up a new ceiling in the corridor next to the classrooms downstairs. It looks great. So now it is time for all our building energy to go into strengthening our congregation. The spirit here last spring was wonderful. Now we have a committee in place to help spearhead some congregational growth. Can we build something solid like Levi's new four poster bed? Will we feel afloat in the harbor looking for solid ground on our own little island?
This is the time to regather and affirm all the love and support we have built as a congregation in this last year. This congregation and its ministry is here for you. Please let us know how your religious home can be a continuing source of spiritual nourishment for you. Sometimes newcomers to our faith think it is adrift in the harbor with no grounding because of our non-credal nature, but our Unitarian Universalist power is in the process of discovery, the quest of truth, the open response to others, and the fluidity of love. "All of us can help newcomers in their understanding of UUism by speaking to them and helping to orient them when they visit.
Come join us in this ongoing construction project of faith. Together we build a growing
community of compassion and hope.
September Sermon and Services
All services at 11:00 a.m.
Sunday, September 12
Water Ceremony and Ingathering The Congregation
On the first Sunday of the year we gather the waters from the member of the community. Please bring a small vial of water from wherever your travels took you this summer (we will also have virtual water available). Please come and tell us how the water you collected refreshed your soul. This is a service for all ages.
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Sunday, September 19
"Finding Home" Mark W. Harris
Summer is a time when we may lose perspective on where home is. We may visit our other homes, such as places that feel special to us. Sometimes we live out of context. In the novel Brick Lane (a summer read), the characters live in London, but home seems to be Bangladesh. How do we find home?
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Sunday, September 26
"Taking Time Seriously" Mark W. Harris
The Mass. Council of Churches has a program called "Take Back Your Time."As fall schedules heat up, it is a worthy consideration, if you have time! Also, some thoughts on the 150 th anniversary of the publication of Thoreau's Walden.
Social Hour: Fellowship Committee
Among Us
Our love and sympathy to Harold Bejcek and family at the death of his wife Evelyn on August 22. Evelyn was one who did countless things for the Watertown community. A service was held at First Parish on Friday August 27 conducted by Andrea and Mark. Contributions in Evelyn's name may go to the Watertown Education Foundation.
Some rites of passage that occurred just before the summer break:
Congratulations and welcome to Julian Howland, son of Janie and Brian Howland, and little brother of Davis. Julian was dedicated on ..
Congratulations to Elizabeth de Frees and Isabel Tappan who were legally married on their seventh anniversary, June 21. They also have a new family name : Tappan-deFrees.
Congratulation to Ken Repp and Chris Johnson, who were legally married on June 27 at First Parish.
At a special school ceremony last spring, Charlotte Fitts-Sprague and Amy Urban were each presented with awards for "most improved." There were only two awards in this category given to the entire 6th grade class and our FPW girls got them! Congratulations.
R.E.flections by a chaliceD.R.E.amer
by Roberta Altamari
Wow! I can't believe summer has flown by so quickly and that I'm already writing my first Arbella column of the year. We've got another exciting year ahead of us and I can't wait to get started.
Did you know that ... the Water Service (coming on Sunday, September 12) is one of my favorite First Parish rituals. I always look forward to hearing the stories about everyone's summer adventures and to experiencing that wonderful, connective spirit. It feels like the "loving hug" of a church family coming back together.
Did you know that ... The 1977 Women and Religion Resolution at the General Assembly began the process of updating the bylaws, reframing the principles, and revising the songs to be more respectful and inclusive of women (as initiated by a group from Lexington, Mass). It was 1980 when 2 women (Lucille Longview and Carolyn McDade) created a ceremony of "water sharing" for hundreds of women gathering together for a "Convocation on Feminist Theology". "The women were rising and water had carried them there." The ceremony was so beautiful and affirming that many people brought it back home to their churches. It caught on and has become an important ritual at many UU churches.
Did you know that ... I've learned a lot about Unitarian Universalist history and theology this summer while preparing this year's program. As our children explore our principles as inspired by people who are courageously loving, we will focus on UU stories. I already knew that this would offer our children a valuable introduction to their UU history. What I didn't know was just how amazing some of our UU ancestors are. From countless UU's who stood up for their beliefs despite horrible consequences to the many UU's who worked tirelessly helping others, they all got me incredibly inspired. I hope you and your children are equally impressed when you hear their stories this year.
Did you know that ... our children will also be exploring our principles as inspired by "Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves." We will focus much of our attention during this exploration on the bible stories from the Old Testament (Hebrew Scriptures) since both traditions share these stories. I have to admit that I was surprised to discover how many books tell these stories in a fear-inducing "God will punish those who are bad" way. After reading these stories I remember from my Christian childhood, I initially felt an overwhelming gratitude to be a part of a religious faith that wouldn't even think of scaring children into "believing" something. These bible stories and characters are fully integrated into our American culture and I think it is important for our UU children to think carefully about who's presenting the story and what message they are using the story to convey. By the time I was done revisiting these same bible stories with a "loving God" presentation, I was inspired by how affirming and relevant their messages can be to our UU faith.
Did you know that ... our children will also be exploring our principles as inspired by earth centered traditions. Knowing the history of religion and that native tribes created religion to explain the unexplainable and to guide human behavior, I have been fascinated to learn more. While Native Americans, Pagans, witches, etc. have often been treated with little regard in American culture, their traditions are filled with lots of respect for our beautiful earth and the interconnection we all share. I have enjoyed learning about these valuable traditions and I look forward to sharing some of the highlights with you.
Did you know that ... our "children's ministry" orientation sessions are set for Sunday, September 12 from 9 AM to 11 AM and Saturday, September 18 from 10 AM to Noon. It's a great time to connect with old and new friends while learning more about our wonderful plans for this coming year.
Did you know that ... Cody and Giles have accepted a generous invitation to join the youth at First Parish of Cambridge for their comprehensive Coming-of-Age program. They are both thrilled that the First Parish of Watertown members they asked to be their mentors enthusiastically accepted. Many, many thanks to David Morrison and Will Twombly!
Did you know that ... we have a great group of "Principle Activators" this year. We have a group of 6 or 7 kids ready to experience our fascinating youth programming. You may know a little bit about this program from seeing all the fun, creative, and interesting things Cody and Giles have done in the past few years. From "sacred grocery shopping" and making "life story quilts" to "making their paper mache chalice" and "taking pictures of the Charles River in the rain", they had an incredible experience in our program. Our new "Principle Activators" will have many opportunities to creatively express their beliefs and look at the UU principles from a deeper perspective. They will also continue to put our principles into action with valuable community service projects. Most significantly, the program will offer them more freedom to create a church experience that reflects their own spiritual dreams and to build more relationships within the First Parish community. They will be participating in a special orientation on Thursday, September 16th to learn all the exciting details of their unique program.
Did you know that ... we also offer top-quality, progressive programming for our youngest children. Since parents often decide to church shop when their children are very young, it's important to welcome them with vibrant, engaging, age-appropriate programming. And that's exactly what we're doing. We are planning to offer nursery care this year by safe, loving adults and I spent a good deal of time this summer developing my "Friendship Finders" curriculum for our two-year-olds. It's a structured routine of toddler books, songs, activities, and rituals perfect for helping them learn that First Parish is a safe and fun place to be.
Did you know that ... I have been learning how to play the guitar this summer so that I can enthusiastically join Charlyn Bethell and Paula Chase in their inspiring efforts to bring more of the sweet sound of children's music into our ministry. I am still learning, so be kind if you hear me make mistakes with my chord changes when leading the kids in song.
Did you know that ... we will continue to inspire our children with enjoyable and valuable opportunities for "helping others". Many simple but meaningful "community service projects" are being planned to do with our children during their Sunday morning small group gatherings. "Chalice Children", our extra-curricular club for all First Parish children wishing to get more involved in helping our community, will start off the year with a great project - selling root-beer at "Faire on the Square" to benefit the library's building fund.
Saving the best news for last, did you know that ... we are already growing! My projections of who will likely be registering this year for our "children's ministry" program include 10 new names. Three were born into our church family last year, five visited last year and are very likely to be signing up this year, one is a middle school student new to the area who may be interested in our unique program for youth his age, and one is the four-year-old daughter of a former First Parish member who promises she is coming back. Kudos to everyone at First Parish for welcoming these families and supporting our growth!!
Did you know that ... with all this promising growth, we need your help more than ever! Volunteer options in our "children's ministry" range from super easy (like being an assistant to a "spiritual guide" or babysitting our cute "chalice babies") to inspiring opportunities to share your special talents (as a "spiritual guide" with one of our groups or by showing an interesting craft to our youth). Everyone's help is needed and I'd be happy to talk to you about the perfect way to match your interests, capabilities, and available time with a meaningful volunteer opportunity. Please talk to me today.
We are growing and your help in our "children's ministry" program is needed more than ever! Many super easy volunteer opportunities are available. Contact Roberta today (at xxx-xxx-xxxx or chaliceDREamer@aol.com).
REMEMBER TO BRING WATER ON SEPTEMBER 12
Every year our opening service is an Intergenerational Water Ceremony. Each of us pours a small amount of water into a common bowl representing our joined community. The water represents some aspect of our summer experience that we wish to share with the congregation - where did we go ; what did we learn? It may have been a far away journey or a backyard stream that inspired you. Please tell us how your spiritual journey was enhanced by the water you bring on September 12.
New Memorial Fund
On Sunday, October 3 after church, we will have a brief memorial service to scatter the ashes of long time member Marguerite Jones. This event will inaugurate a new effort to establish a FPW memorial stone and garden area in front of the church. Ultimately we hope to raise funds to completely landscape and create a garden where the marigolds are now planted annually. We also hope to place a permanent granite stone where many FPW members can be memorialized. If you would like to make a contribution, please mark it Memorial Fund. We hope to establish a committee, and develop further plans to accomplish this project this fall.
Growth Committee
A New committee to help the congregation manage some intentional growth in the coming years is now in place. Come help plan improved signage, visitor follow-up and special visitor Sundays. It will hold its inaugural meeting of the fall on Sunday, September 12 after church. If you are interested in joining us, please speak to Jane Knuttunen or Mark Harris.
Summer Services Thank you.
We had a wonderful array of summer services this year. Thanks to all those who gave their time and energy to produce such great services. Our gratitude to Jean Merkl, Paul Day, Kathy Button and Carole Berney and Paula Chase and Guy Urban (along with Michael Collins and Charlyn Bethell). Thanks also to the Worship Committee members who coordinated each day.
"Maintaining Quality of Life as We Age"
Sunday morning forum with Bob Dutton
Sunday, September 26 , 9:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.
Bob Dutton (Father of Nancy), who has become a UU later in life, first in Watertown and now in North Attleboro, and was an ordained Congregational minister and long time prison chaplain, will join was for two Sunday morning forums this fall (the second one will be on October 31) The topic of this discussion will be "Maintaining Quality of Life as We Age." Now well into his 90's Bob must cope with Parkinson Disease, and he has also endured the loss a partner. These two aspects of aging will be the focus of his discussion with us. All are welcome to attend. We will ask: How do we handle the changes in our bodies, and the variety of pains and illnesses we must confront as we age. How much control can we maintain? How do we adjust? The second aspect of aging is the continuing changes in our relationships. How do we manage the loss of loved ones - partners and friends, and how do our relationships change with family and others? Please join us for this stimulating discussion. Bob will initiate our discussion, and Mark Harris will also be present to help facilitate.
Welcome Darrick!
This fall we say hello to an new student intern. Darrick Jackson, a student at Andover Newton Theological School, and an active lay person at Arlington Street Church in Boston will join us for the next two years. Darrick is interested in the relationship between theater and worship. He is a graduate of Purdue University, and has recently been active in the UU young Adult Network. Welcome Darrick!
Annual Service Auction
As we start the new church year, it's not too early to begin thinking about the Annual Service Auction, which will be held on Saturday, November 13. The auction is a major fundraiser for First Parish, and is also one of the most enjoyable social events of the year.
Do you have a service or article you can donate? It might be an evening of babysitting, an afternoon of gardening help, a gourmet dinner, computer help, or a piece of art you've created. Everyone has a talent they can share! Donating to the auction allows you to share your talent, assist First Parish, and perhaps make some new friends within the church.
Auction donation forms will be included in the next newsletter. Later in the fall, we will produce and distribute an auction booklet listing all the donated items. On October 24, October 31, and November 7 we will have tables set up during Social Hour for you to bid on your favorite items. The culmination of the auction is the evening of November 13, with a potluck dinner, and final bidding led by our talented First Parish auctioneer!
If you'd like to get some ideas about what you might donate to the auction, please consult last year's auction booklet which is posted on the bulletin board in the Social Hall. If you are interested in volunteering to assist with the auction, or if you have any questions, please speak with a member of the Parish Committee
Thanks from Project Literacy
Project Literacy groups have been meeting at FPW for some years. They will especially need our space during the library renovations. What follows is letter Mark received last spring.
85 Porter Road
Waltham, MA 02452
Dear Mr. Harris:
I am a student in PROJECT LITERACY, the adult literacy program thatis based in the Watertown Free Public Library. I was so glad to be askedto join this program in January, 2004, and I would like to express my gratitude for giving us the use of the conference room in your church.
In this way the students in our group have the possibility of improving their speaking ability by talking about all kinds of news. Each of us readsan article before coming to class and then we report on it at our weeklymeeting. This is very important for every student because it gives each of usthe support and help we need to integrate ourselves into a new community ina new country.
Thank you for supporting this important human mission of ProjectLiteracy.
With gratitude and respect,
Bogdana Ganeva
Sofia, Bulgaria
UU News / Community News
Fall in Love with Vermont
Here is your invitation to B & B with UUs in the Brattleboro area for a weekend this October. Enjoy the highlights of Southern Vermont's Foliage Season: the Vermont Jazz Center and Bach Festival Events, Farmer's Market, Dummerston Apple Pie Festival, Newfane Heritage Festival (craft fair), Brattleboro Museum and Art Center Exhibits and so very much more. Join us for our Sunday Service at 10 A.M.
This Bed and Breakfast "Fun-Raiser" will benefit All Souls Church Unitarian Universalist, West Brattleboro, Vermont. Weekends available are: Oct. 8-10th (Columbus Day weekend) and Oct. 15-16th. We expect peak colors around this time. Foliage B & B rates, per night: $50 single, $75 double, and $25 child.
Check our web site www.allsouls.brattleboro.uua.org. For information
E-mail Kathy Squires at solanasq@together.net or leave her a message at xxx-xxx-xxxx.
UNIVERSALIST CONFERENCE OCT. 2, MEDFORD, MA
The Rev. John Buehrens will give the keynote address, "Living with Soul: the Intersection of Spirituality and Social Justice," at the New Massachusetts Universalist Convention's Annual Conference on Saturday, October 2, at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Medford, MA, 147 High Street. The day will run from 8:30 to 4:30 and include food (breakfast, lunch, snack), worship, small group reflection, workshops, and lots of good conversation. YELLOW registration fliers have been sent to all UU churches in New England. Full information also is available on line--go to www.nmuc.uua.org and click on "Annual Meeting."
FLORIDA UUS and Hurricane Charley
Florida UUs are helping clean up in the wake of the recent hurricane disaster. The Florida District has set up a relief fund for those affected by the hurricane. If you would like to help, please send checks marked for Florida District Disaster Fund to Florida District UUA, 1901 E. Robinson Street, Suite 18, Orlando, FL 32803.
Holly Near Makes Two Local Appearances
Holly Near will be the feature performer at a concert presented at the First Parish in Cambridge, 3 Church Street in Harvard Square, Saturday, October 2, at 8:00 P.M.
Proceeds will benefit the human rights work of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee. Holly Near has received numerous awards for her work for social change, including honors from the ACLU, the National Lawyers Guild, the National Organization for Women, NARAS, Ms. Magazine (Woman of the Year), and the Legends of Women's Music Award. Local favorite Scott Alarik will open. Floor seats $ 25.00 advance / $28. 00 door; gallery seats $20.00 advance / $23.00 door. For more information, call (781) 444-7478. For tickets, go to www.uusc.org or call 800 766-5236.
On Sunday, Sunday, October 3, at 2:00 PM, Holly will present her "Singing for Our Lives" Workshop and Song Talk at First Parish in Needham. In her workshop presentation, Holly tells her story. She uses very specific experiences of falling and getting back up as examples of how she learned activism. Social change movements were the "university" where she studied issues of race, gender, class, and culture. From tales of her work in Hollywood, to travels in war zones, Holly invites the participants to embrace their own journey, their own next step. Holly brings vibrancy to historic and current events with great charm and humor. First Parish in Needham, Unitarian Universalist Church is located at the corner of Great Plain and Dedham Avenue in Needham center. There is free parking and wheelchair access. Admission is $10.00 advance / $12.00 at the door to benefit the Church. For tickets, make checks payable to First Parish in Needham, 23 Dedham Avenue, Needham, MA 02492. For more information, call (xxx) xxx-xxxx.
Faith in Action Volunteers
Faith in Actions Caregivers, Inc., is seeking persons to give one hour of their time to help frail elders, and disabled persons living in their homes. Volunteers are need to make friendly visits, grocery shopping, respite care, escort transportation to Drs. appointments, playing cards, and telephone assurance. Your volunteer service can make a difference in a person's life. Call Jean Mulloy at xxx-xxx-xxxx
Welcome back!
A question to ponder in the months ahead:
In 2005 we will mark 375 years as a congregation
How shall we celebrate?
Calendar for September:
Wed., September 1 -7:30 p.m. Fellowship Committee
Wed., September 7 - 7:30 p.m. Parish Committee
Sunday, September 12 - 9-11 RE Orientation
12:15 Growth Committee
Thurs., September 16 - 7-9 RE Orientation
Sat., September 18 - 10-12 RE Orientation
Sun., September 26 - 9:30- 11:00 a.m. Seminar on Aging with Bob Dutton
Mon., September 27 - 7:30 p.m. Building and Grounds
Tues., September 28 6:30-8:30 p.m. Women and Work